Ever felt the need to hug tightly your closest pal? or jealous because he/she has started giving time to their lover and not you? Modern day love, come and go often. What stays is one friend, who is there mostly, in your hour of need. He/She will listen to your crazy fantasies and also you sad love endings. Will miss their meeting just to give u a friendly treat. Yes, he/she is our friend of the hour. So, will you gamble that one friend to be your next lover. Tricky, isn’t it. well, here is a list of pros ad cons for getting into a relation with your chuddy buddy:
1) Lovers might come and go, but a best buddy is never replaceable.
2) Expectation burden. People have different expectation from our friends while from their lovers. so don’t be surprised if your lover turned friend also start to expect a little more cozy relation then what you used to share earlier.
3) You call him/her your best buddy and is your gossip destination. Where will all the gossips be sink in now.
4) He/She already know your favorite coffee cafe, your movie taste your shopping destinations. So no time wasting in training, you get to take the best out of this relationship
5) Mutual friends will be a great aid as no hassle in getting used to your lover’s best buddies, you already know them all.
6) Know each other’s birthdays, parent’s anniversaries, gifting preferences all in advance.
7) You will get a bunch full of people saying, they always knew something was cooking between you two.
8) Its easy to get in, but hard to get out. Ever thought about the situation when you might have to declare a break off from your best buddy.
9) This could be your last try at love, because if this succeed then well, otherwise you might even lost your only shoulder to cry upon. Psychologically it won’t be ever possible to get in friendly terms once you have crossed those limits and entered the love heavens.
10) Friend is a friend indeed, Even a lover can’t fill its place.